FOR MEN WHO'VE ALREADY DONE THE WORK
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Help another man walk the road you've already walked.

Memento Mori Coaching is building a small collective of coaches who've rebuilt themselves — and who know how to walk another man through it. Not a certification. A brotherhood with a business behind it.

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WHY THIS EXISTS

There are more men who need this than one coach can serve.

I built Memento Mori Coaching because the men I know — divorced, sober, rebuilt, middle-aged — needed someone who'd actually lived it, not someone who read Marcus Aurelius on a beach vacation. And every week, more of them reach out than I can carry.

WHO WE'RE LOOKING FOR

Not credentials. Lived experience.

Memento Mori doesn't hire coaches based on certifications. We hire based on scar tissue, self-awareness, and the ability to sit across from another man and see him clearly.

Certification tells me you passed a test. Lived experience tells me you can be trusted in the room.

That said, we do look for real coaching skill: presence, listening, the ability to challenge without cruelty. Formal training helps, but it's not the filter.

The profile:

HOW IT WORKS · THE MODEL

You do the coaching. We handle the rest.

YOUR REVENUE SHARE
30%

Of every dollar collected from a client you coach. Paid monthly via Stripe. No cap. No sliding scale. Same rate on the first client and the fiftieth.

WHAT WE HANDLE
70%

Marketing, lead generation, intake calls, payment processing, brand, tech, community platform, coach-development sessions. You just show up for the client.

$1,500
MONTHLY 1:1 PROGRAM
Your share: $450/client/month
$497
GROUP COHORT / MONTH
Your share: $149/participant/month
10–15
TYPICAL CLIENT LOAD
$4.5k–$8k+/month depending on mix

The 30% split is generous by industry standard for a reason. We want coaches who choose to stay because the work and the money both make sense.

HOW TO APPLY

Two-part filter.

Step one — the application below (about 20 minutes to complete honestly). Step two — a video call with me if your written application resonates. If we move forward from there, a paid trial period with real clients under supervision.

We add coaches slowly. We're building for the long haul, not a headcount race. Expect 4–6 weeks from application to decision.

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This isn't a side hustle. Coaches who come in half-in leave half-served men in their wake. Apply only if you're ready to give this weight.

Verba movent, exempla trahunt.
HONEST QUESTIONS

Answered plainly.

Is this an employee position?
No. You're an independent contractor. You set your own schedule within our published availability windows. You're paid on a rev-share, not a salary.
Do I have to be sober / religious / Stoic / any specific thing?
No. We care that you've lived something real and integrated it. Any tradition or none is fine — as long as you can meet a man where he is without imposing yours.
Can I keep my own separate coaching practice on the side?
Yes, as long as it's not directly competitive (i.e. not another "midlife men's coaching" brand). Full transparency at application time.
Where do the clients come from?
Our content — YouTube, newsletter, podcast — plus paid intake funnels. You never have to cold-market. But you're expected to serve well enough that clients recommend you.
What happens if a client relationship goes sideways?
You have a case-consultation partner and access to me directly. We workshop hard situations as a small group weekly.
Is there insurance / liability protection?
We carry E&O for the collective, and every coach signs our practice standards + client agreement. We are not therapists and we don't work with active clinical crises.